Celebration of Life

Celebration of Life Information

Many families today want a service which celebrates the life of their loved one. We introduce them to the concept of a celebration of life, and provide support in designing a celebration of life that is as unique as the life of their loved one.

We always enjoy working together with families in planning a celebration of life for their loved one. While it can be a challenge to put together an event that both pays tribute to and celebrates the life and spirit of a complex individual, it's also one of the most rewarding things any one of us can do for someone we've loved and lost.

Sarah York opens her beautifully-crafted book, Remembering Well, with the very personal story about how her family chose to pay tribute to her mother. "My mother died in April 1983... She didn't want a funeral. 'Get together and have a party,' she had said when the topic was allowed to come up." However, she was quick to tell readers that the survivors did not honor the request. "We needed the ritual. We needed to say good-bye, but we also needed a ritual that would honor her spirit and would be faithful to her values and beliefs."

When Ms. York acknowledges the position of her family—that they needed not a party but a ritual—she teaches us all something important: the celebration of life events we plan with families should be shaped as much by their own emotional and spiritual needs as their desire to celebrate the life lived.

While celebrations of life are not burdened by social expectations—they can be pretty much anything you want them to be—it's important to realize that the event you're planning should meet the emotional needs of the guests. So, think about exactly who will be there, and what they're likely to want or need. Then, bring in those unique lifestyle and personality characteristics of the deceased; perhaps add live music or refreshments, and you've got the beginnings of a remarkable celebration of life.
Sources: 
Remembering Well: Rituals for Celebrating Life & Mourning Death, Sara York

Celebration Options

Funeral service choices are influenced by religious and cultural traditions, costs and personal preferences. These are the factors that make each funeral unique. They also influence whether the body will be present at the funeral, if there will be a viewing or visitation, and whether the remains will be buried or cremated.

Traditional or Non-traditional

Funeral service options should not be limited to what is referred to as "Traditional" & "Non Traditional Services". Funeral services should be as unique as the person that they are being celebrated for. Our celebration options have included aspects such as Scottish Bag Pipers, Fire Trucks as Hearses, Vintage Hearses, Personalized Memorial Videos, Memory Boards and Delaware River riverside Memorial Services just to name a few.

Cremation

Our services surrounding the choice of Cremation can include all of the above mentioned options along with anything else you might find important when celebrating the life of someone dear to you. When choosing cremation you can still incorporate a viewing, giving friends and family the opportunity to pay their respects. A church service or service at the funeral home can take place prior to the cremation process. And finally if you wish, their cremated remains can be interred in a family cemetery plot, scattered or brought home for safekeeping.

Garefino Funeral Home is located in Lambertville New Jersey across the river from New Hope Pennsylvania. We've proudly serviced families in Hunterdon, Bucks, and Mercer Counties for over 30 years.
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